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Burnout, Wine, Repeat with Lauren Baptiste / EP 121

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Coach Ruby Williams with Coach Susan Larkin interview Burnout Coach Lauren Baptiste

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The Hidden Burnout Trap

On the outside, everything looks fine.
You’re successful. Driven. Capable.

But inside… you’re exhausted.

Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart.
Sometimes it looks like pushing through… and pouring another glass of wine.

As discussed in this episode, many women don’t recognize burnout until their body forces them to stop.

Alcohol Isn’t the Problem… It’s the Symptom

One of the biggest mindset shifts?

Alcohol isn’t the root issue.

It’s the coping mechanism.

When you’re overwhelmed, overworked, and over-functioning… alcohol becomes the fastest way to feel relief.

But that relief is temporary…
And the cost is long-term.

  • Poor sleep
  • Increased anxiety
  • More burnout
  • Less clarity

It creates a cycle that feeds itself.

Why High-Achieving Women Burn Out Faster

Women are conditioned to do it all:

Career. Family. Relationships.

We carry the invisible mental load…
And hold ourselves to impossible standards.

The result?
Over-functioning becomes normal.

And burnout becomes inevitable.

The “Work Hard, Play Hard” Myth

Many women adopt this belief:

“If I work hard… I deserve to drink.”

But what starts as reward turns into reliance.

And suddenly…
You’re not unwinding…
You’re numbing.

Small Changes Create Big Shifts

The solution isn’t doing everything perfectly.

It’s doing something small.

In the episode, Lauren shares how transformation starts with tiny shifts:

  • Drinking more water
  • Setting boundaries
  • Creating space to rest

These small actions rebuild trust with yourself.

And over time… they change everything.

You Get to Decide

Here’s the truth:

You don’t have to stay burned out.

But you do have to decide.

Not someday.
Not when things calm down.

Now.

Because the life you want?
It starts with one different choice today.
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